Do you suspect your partner is cheating? Psychologists recommend using the "1 test" to clarify: The more you have sex, the more likely you are to have an affair
Do you suspect your partner is cheating? Psychologists recommend using the “1 test” to clarify
During the long nights, when loneliness and doubts occupy your heart, have you ever been worried about gains and losses, and felt uncertain about the loyalty of your partner? It is recommended to avoid wallowing in endless worries! In fact, we can use a simple “affair constitution” quiz to observe and analyze signs of whether our partner may be cheating, which can help us understand our emotional uneasiness and worry and find new ways to face and deal with this dilemma.
[Quiz] Does your partner have a high “affair constitution”?
Is your partner easily affected by the surrounding environment or atmosphere?
Does your partner often have various fantasies about the opposite sex?
Does your partner show unusual excitement when sexual-related content is mentioned or seen?
Does your partner often dress up carefully to attract the attention of the opposite sex?
Does your partner often dream about sexual situations?
Is your partner keen on exploring all kinds of passionate sex games?
Does your partner spend a lot of time in relationship chat?
Does your partner have a history of infidelity?
Has your partner dated more than one person?
Is your partner’s attachment style ambivalent, avoidant, or unstable?
Did your partner’s parents experience intense conflict?
Does your partner show hesitance about investment and commitment?
Does your partner work overseas for a long time or travel frequently?
Does your partner take pride in his or her appearance, abilities, or wealth?
Is your partner under 35 years old or over 50 years old?
Choose “yes” or “no” after each question based on how you actually feel. Through these questions, we can pay more detailed attention to the emotional and behavioral changes of our partners, so as to understand whether the stimulation needs of both parties in the intimate relationship match. This is an indispensable consideration in maintaining the relationship.
The more “yes” in the answer, the more attention you need to pay to your partner’s mood and behavioral changes; the more “no” in the answer, it means you may be too nervous. Everyone has different needs for stimulation, just like everyone has different tastes in food. Some people like it light, while others prefer hot and sour food. People with a high need for stimulation will feel boring when life becomes stable and regular; while people with a low need for stimulation will feel too stressed when life is full of challenges. In an intimate relationship, whether both parties have consistent needs for stimulation is an important issue that cannot be ignored.
“What are the three most boring things in the world?” Psychologist: Your partner’s reply may reveal clues about cheating!
A male friend once complained to me about “the three most boring things in the world”: the first thing is that playing mahjong with friends does not cost money; the second thing is teaching his own sister to swim; the third thing is The thing is, I danced the three-piece dance with my wife. At first glance, these three things seem to have nothing to do with each other. In fact, they have one thing in common, that is, they are not exciting enough.
If you ask the same question to different people, you will get different answers. Another male friend’s answer is completely different. He thinks the three most boring things in the world are washing dishes, fishing, and fishing. It’s marriage; and what these three things have in common is that they must stay in one place and cannot move around. The lack of change makes friends feel suffocated. From the three things that your partner finds most boring, what can you more or less tell about what he doesn’t like? What are the commonalities among them? It’s quite valuable as a reference.
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