Less than half of Taiwanese people are satisfied with sex! Doctors reveal the key reason: "Not hard enough" leads to poor sex in bed
Every time I want to fight a “tough battle”, I always end up being a weakling! Is softer than a “peeled banana” a sign of sexual dysfunction?
Every time you want to have a “tough fight” with your partner at night, but you always end up as a “soft guy” and can’t do it? In recent years, Mr. Wang, a 52-year-old wife, found that his erections were not as hard as before and his sexual sensitivity was reduced during intercourse. He needed to spend more time on foreplay stimulation before he could forcefully “go into battle”. As a result, his wife often suffered from erections, which made Mr. Wang very upset. Frustrated; sometimes I would rather “do it myself” than face the cold eyes and sighs from my wife after the incident.
Dr. Zhang Meiyu, director of Zhang Meiyu Urology Clinic, said that multiple factors such as physical and psychological factors will reduce the frequency and satisfaction of a couple’s sexual life. Unsatisfied sexual needs can also easily lead to emotional friction between couples, becoming a vicious cycle that keeps repeating. The latest online survey on sexual life in Taiwan also found that in addition to life pressure, lack of interest, and sexual needs not being as strong as youth, the factors that affect sexual desire are over 80% of people who believe that “erection hardness” is the main influencing factor!
Dr. Li Jiawen, director of Fengshan Li Jiawen Urology Clinic, explained that if you want to know whether you have insufficient firmness, you can simply make an assessment with foods such as “small cucumbers, peeled bananas, peeled bananas, and konjac” in your daily life. If the hardness level is peeled banana or konjac, even if you have an erection and you cannot have sex smoothly, it is recommended to go to the urology clinic for consultation. Dr. Zhang Meiyu further reminded that you should never buy uncertified or unknown drugs online, as you may injure your liver and kidneys, and the gain outweighs the loss!
Less than half of Taiwanese people are satisfied with sex! Are men’s “not hard enough” a problem in bed?
According to Taiwan’s latest sex life survey online, less than 40% of people are satisfied with their current sexual frequency; among them, “frequently being rejected and not wanting to try” and “being under pressure and having no interest” are the reasons that reduce their willingness to have sex. The key factor. Dr. Zhang Meiyu explained that most Taiwanese people are shy about communicating about each other’s sexual needs, and even couples dare not express their true thoughts.
In addition, the survey also pointed out that more than half of the people have never actively asked or informed their partners about their sexual preferences. In addition to causing emotional discord and reducing the willingness to have sex in the long term, when sex becomes pressure, it will further affect male erectile function.
In addition to the lack of frequency, the current level of sexual satisfaction among Taiwanese people is also worrying. The survey shows that less than 50% of people are satisfied with the quality of sex. An Asia-Pacific study even pointed out that as many as 62% of Taiwanese women are dissatisfied with their sex lives. Dr. Li Jiawen emphasized that “hardness” is the key to sexual satisfaction. International studies have pointed out that sexual life satisfaction is not only positively correlated with male erection hardness; better erectile function can also bring women’s vaginal orgasm.
A must-see for men who don’t want to always come by themselves! Doctors teach 3 tips to return to a happy sexual life
Dr. Zhang Meiyu shared that many male patients in clinical practice who have been married for many years often solve their sexual needs “by themselves” and have no desire to have sex with their partners. Based on her professional experience as a female urologist, she shared 3 tips to help mature men return to a happy “sex” life:
The first is “foreplay”. Dr. Zhang Meiyu pointed out that through slow physical contact, such as caressing and loving words, girls can get ready for sex faster; the second is “creation of a romantic atmosphere”, through which Sweet words, aphrodisiac music and comfortable lighting can all help women enter a sexual state. The two tips are also the methods used by most people in this survey to try to improve the quality of their sexual life; however, less than 10% of people use the third tip: “Seek the help of a professional urologist to solve the hardness problem.”
Dr. Li Jiawen explained that nearly half of men over the age of 40 may suffer from insufficient erection hardness as their physiological functions decline. And sexual sensitivity is positively correlated with erection hardness. If the penis is not hard enough, the sensitivity will also decrease and more sexual stimulation will be needed to achieve an erection. If the problem of hardness is not addressed early and corrected by medical treatment, the couple may become emotionally discordant and fall into a vicious cycle of “asexuality.”
How to detect hardness problems early? Dr. Li Jiawen explained that there is currently a simple clinical method to evaluate erection hardness. The hardness is divided into four levels based on common fresh ingredients, namely cucumber, peeled banana, peeled banana and konjac. If a man finds that the skin is hard like a peeled banana or konjac, it is recommended to seek professional help from a urology department. Dr. Zhang Meiyu also reminded that the decrease in male erection hardness with age is a natural aging phenomenon of the smooth muscle of the human blood vessel wall and is a normal physiological change like wrinkles. As long as you get medical treatment early, there is a chance for improvement.
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